Thursday, October 1, 2009

Oh, Ondoy.

I don’t know where to start. That’s the way I felt when I first saw the disaster that is now our house. And that’s the way I feel now as I attempt to write about the experience that will forever be the turning point of our lives. I’ll try to do everything chronologically, to indulge my perfectionist tendencies.


Saturday morning. I woke up at 8 AM, which was late, as I had planned to study the whole day for my biochem exam. Already the rain was pouring heavily. I kissed my mom goodbye before she left for a family gathering in the South. As I was eating breakfast, my dad noticed that rainwater was starting to collect on the streets outside. He anticipated the flood (which had twice before occurred, the water entering our house at knee level) and asked me to help him move our three remaining cars (as one was with Mama) to higher ground, which was just at the end of the street.


To prepare for the possibility that the water would enter our house, Papa, Yaya Arlie, Yaya Sonia, Monch, and I started moving our downstairs furniture upstairs (which is a mere four steps higher). We moved the ref, various tables, chairs, even our dog, Mookie. But the water was rising alarmingly fast. Papa said pag umabot na ‘yung tubig sa third step ng stairs, alis na tayo. This happened in what seemed like minutes. But we could no longer leave, so we decided to go up to the highest point in our house—the tiny attic. We brought everything we could, while the two Yayas still scurried to bring up everything they could. They managed to bring up three TVs, paintings, various appliances while we upstairs were calling tama na yan, akyat na kayo, iwanan niyo na yung mga gamit. Only when they were neck deep in the water (on tiptoes) did they finally heed our calls.


So the five of us (six including Mookie) were stuck in the attic all of Saturday night until Sunday afternoon. We had some food to eat, just a few bottles of mineral water, and only a makeshift toilet. You can bet I was feeling sooo Anne Frank. Haha. Though I was as worried and scared as the rest of them, I knew I had to be the calm, strong one, especially for Papa, who is hypertensive and diabetic. I led them in praying the rosary, the Memorare, the prayer of Jabez, the novena to the Infant Jesus over and over and over again as we could do nothing else. We could hardly sleep; we would pass the time by watching the water level rise (over our gate, almost until the ceiling of our garage).


We had five cell phones with us in the attic but the signal was limited and very erratic. We also had to conserve our battery because we didn’t know how long we would be stuck up there. Mama was very worried about us but we assured her that we were all okay and that we had enough food and water for the night. She was trying very hard to contact people who might be able to rescue us. The rain finally stopped late that night, but it would start drizzling every now and then. Every time it did I would pray again Lord make the rain stop, please make it stop, please let the floods recede, please let this all be over.


Sunday morning. We received a call from Mama that she had contacted Papa’s boss, the president of San Miguel Corp, Mr. Ramon Ang, and he told her that he would send a helicopter for us right away. Mrs. Lydia Ragasa, the woman in charge of all of SMC’s aircrafts, said that they could do this at 5am at the earliest. So beginning 5am, at the sound of an approaching chopper, Papa would climb up to the roof (no easy feat for him) and wave an improvised flag. After a few false alarms, SMC’s chopper finally arrived at around 11am. Unfortunately they could not land on any of the rooftops or even descend low enough so that we could climb aboard (they had no ladder and it was unsafe for them to land due to the electric cables all around the houses). They resorted to dropping a life raft to us and telling Monch that he would have to row us to a place where there was no water and they could land for us to climb aboard safely.


While figuring out how to get the life raft to inflate, our savior arrived in the form of Kuya Armand, a school bus driver employed by one of our neighbors and a guy Monch gets to play basketball with sometimes. Since the day before he had been swimming around (yes in the filthy, muddy water), helping in whatever way he could—bringing the little food or water he could find to those who had not eaten, for example. Kuya Armand helped figured out how to inflate the raft for us and assisted us as we climbed aboard it. But more than that, Kuya Armand pushed and pulled our little raft all the way until the foot of Manggahan bridge where there was no more water. It took him a good two hours! Along the way, other men would help but would drop out because of fatigue or cramps. But Kuya Armand was tireless. He was even cheerful, cracking jokes to lighten up the depressing mood.


As we made our way slowly through the waters, I was overwhelmed by everything I saw. Riverside Village and Ortigas Extension had become one long river. All houses, establishments, vehicles were submerged; none were spared. People were wading through the waist- to chest-deep flood. We passed by several of our neighbors in Riverside, those who had not been able to go home. The same questions were asked over and over: Saan kayo galing? Mataas ba ang tubig sa inyo? Nakita niyo pamilya ko? Naku, kumusta na sila? Some were in tears worrying about their family members, others were attempting to bring food home to their children who had not had anything to eat since the day before. We left the life raft with Kuya Armand, who we heard went back to save more people and did not accept payment when some tried to give it.


We were finally picked up at the Jollibee by Sto. Rosario church by Mama, Tito Popot and Tito Elmer. It had never felt so good to see them all again. We all headed to Diamond Hotel, where we are staying until now, thanks again to the generosity of Mr. Ramon Ang who told us we can stay as long as we need.


We are overwhelmed by the generosity of so many others. Already we have received four different offers for places to stay while we fix our house. Countless have also offered to help clean up. Our relatives have given us clothes, shoes, toiletries, food. I also can’t help but be proud of all of the relief efforts that are ongoing. Thank you, thank you, thank you. You are all heroes.


My family is still lucky despite everything. Our clothes can be washed, our furniture and appliances replaced, our cars can be repaired. Let us pray for the others who lost their entire homes, and especially for those who lost their loved ones. Let’s also pray that the other storms that are also making their way here do not arrive. I think we can all do without the rain for awhile.

23 comments:

  1. Mindy, this is very touching.You know me, I do not cry a lot, but just the thought that a lot of our countrymen did so much for all those who need the most, touched me and just increases our faith in our country. If we can just get rid of those goverment officials who want nothing but money in their pockets, we can be a great country again. I hope someone, will rise up to be a good leader for our country once and for all, specially with the advent of this great disaster.
    Let's pray to our Lord that He would grant us leaders that would do something to preserve our country from calamities like this. I know that you and the rest of your family, who I love the most, will be blessed with God's mercies together with all who suffered in this great flood .May God bless all those heroes who sacrificed themselves for the good of others. Tito Bombing

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  2. Hi Mindy! Glad to hear that you and your family are safe :)

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  3. @Tito Bombing: You're right; more than ever we need selfless leaders in this country. Praying for you and Tita Josie especially. Love you.

    @Laureen: Thanks Laureen! :)

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  4. things will only get better, or so i hope. hehe. hugging.

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  5. Minds, lee told me about how you guys were affected but i didn't know to what extent. if you need anything, just text. i can course it through my dad who goes to PGH. I'm glad you're all okay. *hugs* we're praying for you guys.

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  6. @Ruari: Yes, we have to believe in that. Hugging. :)

    @Patty: Thanks so much Patty. Hug! :)

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  7. Mindy! So glad you're okay! PMHS was worrying about you, binalita pa sakin ni Blessie na nakita ka daw niya sa TV. haha. Tell us if you need anything okay? Stay safe! :) --Burn

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  8. Mindy Puy-Puy, you are a real survivor! Brighter days ahead for you and your family. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. We have learned a lot about priorities having caught a glimpse of your experience last weekend. It was good to hug that evening.
    Tita Nes

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  9. hi mindy,
    am deeply touched by your sharing.
    God is really bigger than any storm!
    We are one with you in our prayers.
    Tita joyce maramag dumlao
    am now with UP FLCD, will definitely share your story with my graduating students
    p.s. you may not remember me but we are neighbors with lola adeling and family friends of your titos and titas

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  10. @Burn: Thank you! Haha hello Blessie. :) Stay safe also, you guys! :)

    @Tita Nes: Yes, it was really good to hug that night. Good thing the three of us got to take bath na and wash off the floodwater. Haha :)

    @Tita Joyce: Thank you for your prayers. I will pass them on to my mom. :)

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  11. Mindy! God bless.

    PS I had a Kuya Armand bus driver back in grade school.

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  12. hey mindy, jay here, glad you and you're family are safe. grabe, nakakatakot naman na experience yan. thanks for sharing... im one of those people na super oblivious na malala pala ang nangyari. stay safe, God bless!

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  13. My family joins the rest of your relatives & friends in thanking God for leading you to safety. Your Kuya Armand was an angel sent from above, I really believe that. Things will look up, maybe a bit slowly, but surely.

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  14. @Julie: Haha, cool. I bet he was an angel too.

    @Jaysexy: Thanks, Jay!

    @Tito Joe: Thank you. There's nowhere to go but up now.

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  15. one lucky family who has maids, no children to attend to, an attic, food, chopper for rescue and a hotel to relocate. it's VERY difficult to say of the thousands others even if they survived, they have nothing. Count your privileges as blessings and pay it forward.

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  16. Hi Mindy,
    As your mom always say...we are all abundantly blessed! God must have sent your mom away from your house so she can call for help during the onslaught of the typhoon. Your Guardian Angels must have been watching over you and sent kuya Armand (God bless him!) to help you out of your house. Yes, you're right in saying never mind your house and all the other material things you lost. What's important is you are all alive and well. Praise God! Your parents did a good job in raising a prayerful person in you. God heard your prayers, Mama Mary interceded for you and your Guardian Angels watched over you. In times like these prayers are our only refuge & strenght. Now, let's all move heaven with our prayers so that God will spare our country from the oncoming typhoon, "Pepeng", and let His loving mercy be felt by those who are still suffering from "Ondoy". May God bless you and keep you! Stay safe!

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  17. @Anonymous: The fact that my family is still privileged is not lost on me. Rest assured that we are doing as much as we can to pay it forward. Don't you worry.

    @Tita Bing: Thank you so much for your help with our cars. We appreciate it so much, as it is so hard to get a towing service or a slot at a service center. And yes, I'm sure it was God's plan to send Mama out so she could call for help that day. God bless you also, Tita! Take care. :)

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  18. glad to know you guys are safe. :)
    -Hazel

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  19. I can't help but cry while reading this, the event came flashing back. I was also so worried about my family in brookside, lalo na nung nawalan ng communication from saturday 5pm. Thank God all our families are okay and alot of people have been helping us too. It's time to pay it forward and extend whatever help we can give. Hope the clothes fit you dear._ Tita Sushi

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  20. hi mindy, i am rowen , a friend of your mom... i was very touched by your story. I am glad that you are all safe and that you are so blessed with friends and relatives who are there to help you in these trying times...We are continually praying for everyone and hope that everything will be well soon. Sana my children will also grow up to be like you, a very responsible and prayerful daughter. God bless...

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  21. @Hazel: Thanks! Hope you and your family are safe too. :)

    @Tita Sushi: We were so worried about you too, especially when we heard your car was washed away. Yes, thank God we're all okay. We're still very blessed despite everything. Thank you so much for the clothes! :)

    @Tita Rowen: Thank you so much. I will relay to my mom your message. God bless also.

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  22. Hi Mindy, I'm Tita Becs (Tetangco), your parents' friend and your dad's former co-worker in SMC-CAO. Remember? You and my elder child, Chino, grew up together in Las Villas. I am so touched by your sharing (aside from the fact that you write pretty well ... mana sa mom and dad)! I truly admire your love for your family and househelp, you were the "hero" during those trying moments in your lives. Your presence of mind, strength of character and a most prayerful heart are what actually brought you to safety. I commend you for that. You brought tears to my eyes with your sharing, especially the last part. I join you and our other countrymen in imploring Jesus to bring back to safety everyone who has been affected by Ondoy and to rebuild their lives once again. God bless you and your family.

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  23. @Tita Becs: Hi Tita, I'm really sorry I don't remember. :( But I'll pass your message along to my parents. Thank you for your prayers and kind words. God bless you and your family as well. :)

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